WEEK 27 - Friday 4 April 2025
Firstly, my apologies for not sending out a Headteacher Blog last week. I had one of those days where best laid plans are turned inside out, of which more later.
Like everyone in the world it seems, my wife and I have been watching the Netflix drama, Adolescence, in recent weeks. Given the theme and content, we made the conscious decision to watch it with our fourteen-year-old son. It was a compelling, if not enjoyable, experience and I found myself thinking hard about the content and what it means for me as a dad but also a Headteacher.
The scene which I found the most ingenious and memorable was the one in which the mum and dad reminisced about an event from their childhood where the dad, dancing to impress the girls, split his trousers causing hilarity to those present at a school disco. This depiction of a much more innocent time, where humiliation meant being laughed at by a small number of mates, contrasted sharply with the kind of online humiliation that can be so devastating for young people today. When I meet up with my mates we still reminisce in similar ways, laughing at daft things that we did growing up. When we felt okay to be vulnerable and to make mistakes because we were in a safe space, amongst mates. Now, the audience is much bigger, the stakes greater. It is unsettling and, as parents, we all share the burden of looking after young people as they navigate this world.
I found some of the school-based scenes quite shocking, however, and I can assure all parents that I have never come across a school in which safety and wellbeing standards are as weak as those depicted in Adolescence. Just as police officers are always appalled at the way their profession is depicted in TV dramas, we are the same in education. Schools are much more professional, standards are much higher and students are safer than they are often portrayed on TV.
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It has been a lovely week in school and the opening of the school field has enabled students to use the full extent of the site, especially at lunchtime when the field has been full of footballers and friends sitting and chatting in groups on the field. It has been great to see.
I wrote to all parents this week outlining our changes to the lunch period from 22 April. These will operate until the end of term and I hope to confirm arrangements for 2025-26 very soon as a few parents have queried this. The letter can be found here.
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We go into the Easter break with plans well advanced for our Year 11 students. Most of them are now staying in school late each day, taking advantage of revision sessions being offered by staff. There are also similar numbers signed up for free Easter revision classes, which start on Monday and run until Thursday, each week of the Easter break. If you have not signed your child up for these yet, there are still some spaces available for some sessions, which you can access via the Arbor app.
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It is a busy start to the Easter break in the Groak household. Tomorrow, our son is heading off on his first real adventure without us, travelling to Italy on Wolfreton’s school skiing trip. He is hugely excited, and we are equally proud of how confident he is about it all. As he heads down the motorway, I will be going to the MKM Stadium to watch the Challenge Cup Quarter Final between Hull and Hull KR. As much as I really want Hull to win, I hope that my team continues to improve and show as much pride in their performance as they have done in recent weeks. Seeing twenty thousand plus watching a game which is also on live TV is great for both clubs and the city, so I am looking forward to it and only wish that my son would be there too to watch it with me.
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So last Friday was one of those days where I woke up to blue skies and a neatly planned day ahead of me; there were no real issues on the horizon, and I had every reason to look forward to the weekend.
And then our daughter woke up with stomach cramps. A doctor’s appointment was hastily made which only I could get out of school to take her to. A nurse and a doctor agreed that it ‘probably’ wasn’t appendicitis; but ‘it might be best to take her in and get it checked’. Which meant seven hours in Hull Royal Infirmary as we were passed from room to room, and she was inspected by multiple people before they concluded that it was ‘probably something viral’. All of which was a relief but had turned my day inside out and meant most of Saturday was spent clearing emails and catching up. Such is life as a parent – I am sure you have all experienced days like that.
Finally, as we reach the Easter break, I would like to thank you all for your continued support of our school. It is greatly appreciated and makes our job infinitely easier.
Enjoy the Easter weekend when it arrives.
Mr Groak
Headteacher